In May, I picked up drinking again, after 6 months clean ... I thought that I could just drink. It took me about 3 days to find my drug of choice again. I am not even sure how it happened. I brought myself back to the rooms and I stayed clean for another 3 months. That is when I decided that I really didn't care about staying clean ... again. I picked up again and this time I picked up Heroin. This all happened around the same time I was supposed to move to Tampa. Because I knew that heroin was going to kill me sooner than anything, and I was going broke.. again.... I brought myself back into the rooms. I told my boss that I had a serious problem, checked myself back into a program, and started the process all over again.
After three months clean, I decided that I put a lot of work into my recovery and was ready to move to Tampa. Looking back on it now, I probably could have waited a little more time. But I do live in Tampa now, and I made it here clean.. which is a miracle. I started dating a woman who is not in recovery and definitely has a different lifestyle than me. We argue a lot about the fact that I need so much attention and my recovery takes the lead. Sometimes I get so mad at myself that I have to live like this and I get mad at her that she doesn't understand that I don't have a choice. In the end, it is not my choice, like I said. Looking back on the year that I had because of my addiction.... my recovery is more important than anything. I will be dead in a matter of days if I decided to change that fact. Writing this out helps me keep this in perspective.
I don't want to argue with my girlfriend. I love her a lot and it hurts me to have to try to explain that my life is always on the line. I never ever want it to seem like I am using it as an excuse but I basically need to keep in mind how dangerous this disease is. Even how scary it is to have negative feelings around my addiction. I need to respect it for the monster that it is.
I am dedicated today and don't have a choice. I want to get a year clean so badly. I am sick of relapsing, it is not my style to give up. Today I am in a good place.